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The Ideal Woman from a Man’s Point Of View
By Jerry Samson
(Chief Editor-S&P Magazine)
An S&P Magazine EXCLUSIVE
A well conducted feasibility study conducted by the
Shades and Powder research team concluded
that majority of men around the world desired certain characteristics in their dream woman. These
characteristics have been compiled and concisely explained; of course with immense contribution
from the men from all around the world of different races and ethnic groups and dubbed as the
‘characteristics of the Ideal woman from a man’s point of view’. The ideal woman from a man’s
point of view must possess the following characteristics:
ü Independence (also in thought)
ü Patience (but Confident)
A) Physical Attraction:
This might be considered by most as a luxury item in marriage but it is not so.
This in fact, this
is the nectar that keeps the bee buzzing! It is very important for women to always look good in
front of their man. Aging is inevitable, nevertheless, a woman should always look tidy and
presentable in front of her man; this is a must. Forget about the fact that he has seen it all from
the love making sessions to the vibrant energy filled shower together hours; he still wants his old
Mercedes which he bought long ago and drives almost every day to look brand new!
An intelligent woman is the best companion a man can ever have! There’s nothing
and satisfying to a man than a good intelligent wife who showers him with good advice and assists
him in making intelligent decisions in running his family and work. This is very rare and hence a
An understanding woman is a peaceful woman. Of course, being understanding does
not mean being
‘timid or naive’; those two (2) elements when present in a relationship will only result in one party
dying slowly since it will only be one party who will be bearing the pain and being unable to voice it
out as a result of the presence of the two (2) aforementioned elements thereby allowing the other
partner to unknowingly continue hurting the other partner. Understanding should never be confused
with the two; some amount of wisdom should always be applied here.
This forms sixty (60%) percent of the spine of every relationship. The word ‘Compatible’ means
‘able to exist or used together’. There must be similar interests between the two (2) parties otherwise
the partners will find each other less interesting and very unbearable. Hence they will spend less time
as possible with each other and this will gradually weaken the already existing bond between them and
might even lead to a breakage. As both partners have very little common interests, there is a huge
tendency for them to form a stronger bond with an outsider (with common interests) as they will find the
outsider more interesting and fun to be with since they both share lots of common interests. And this can
lead to a breakup between the less compatible couple. This is a very strong point and a common deformity
in most African marriages and should not be brushed under the rug when discovered.
E) Independence (also in Thought):
Men generally develop some amount of respect for women
who are independent; both in ‘pocket’ and
A woman who does not need a man to provide for her because she has enough to give her the necessary
omfort she needs is not feared by men but rather respected and admired! Likewise a woman who is
‘independent in thought’; that is to say she tries to develop her own opinion on issues and doesn't just
agree to the norm unless it is in her line of reasoning or is convinced over a period of time. Men see this
as a ‘rare’ virtue. Most men will see her as a woman who can ‘think’ hence cannot be taken for a ‘cheap ride’
by other men; and every man would like to have a woman who other men can’t woe cheaply. This puts a sense
of respect and admiration in men and later transforms into attraction.
F) Patience (but Confident):
A patient but confident woman is a woman who knows
what she wants and trusts her instincts but always gives
the benefit of the doubt in every situation and is always willing to allow time to justify situations; of course with
some amount of wisdom and without naivety. This makes her appear goddess-like which is very sexy!
This is a complicated one and needs deep reasoning and very clear understanding.
A man would only say a woman
is ‘humble’ when she has enough power to override his decision but willingly subjects herself to his authority and
principles. Nevertheless, she never fails to express her opinion on issues.
‘Humility’ does not mean ‘being a Servant’ or ‘Slave’, it means being a ‘a
patient and understanding Queen’
‘Humility’ does not mean ‘being a Servant’ or ‘Slave’, it means being a ‘a patient and understanding Queen’